10. Love/Friendship

LOVE — FRIENDSHIP — BUSINESS

Numerology has some very definite methods for the analy­sis of human association which from mere acquaintanceship runs through friendship, business, to the ultimate of love. It is no longer sufficient for intelligent people to set love apart from all other associations. Rather, it is true that as it is love that makes the world go round, without the presence of this eternal reaction, no individual would even glance twice at another and the situations of family life, business partnership, as well as the more sentimental attachments, would be impossible.

With the interpretations of Numerology, it is evident that each personality is really constructed of a collection of energy units; the cells of the chemical body, the nervous system, the mentality, the character and the ego itself.

Human association is therefore a matter of attraction and repulsion between these units of living energy in different per­sonalities and its success or failure is not so completely the fault of the individuals involved as we have been led to believe.

Those individuals who have a physical, mental or emo­tional structure that is opposed to our own have a peculiar fas­cination for us on the plane of the opposition. Hence comes the belief in the law of opposites which are said to attract, but which while they indicate attraction, do not hold.

Those individuals who have an affinity with our vibratory structure, attract us in a less evident manner, but such associa­tion makes for the amplification of the power in a single per­sonality on the plane of the harmony which in time sways the physical conditions and promises lasting harmony.

All reforms on all planes of life are born of the unity of the physical work, the thought and the emotion of individuals of similar vibrations, but in the building of individual character through the medium of experience, many associations that are not so harmonious are necessary to offer the resistance in the overcoming of which, bodies, minds and souls are given tests and the opportunity to prove their quality.

Human life would be a hum-drum and mediocre experi­ence if every association was always harmonious, for it is only in spite of obstacles that many natures can achieve final happi­ness. Happiness and success are not necessarily permanent con­ditions to which the fact of our human nature and desires entitles us, but rewards that life offers the individual as the price for the surrender of many of the petty ambitions and selfish aspirations so peculiar to our lesser selves.

Human association being then a matter of harmonious and inharmonious vibrations in different personalities and phases of environment, there are some suggestions to be gained nu neurologically from comparing the name numbers and the birth numbers of those with whom we are or anticipate becoming associated.

In the first pages of this book will be found instructions for numbering the letters of the name for the purpose of deciding personal characteristics. If you have not memorized these in­structions turn to them now and you will see that the first let­ters of the name to be dealt with are vowels, a, e, i, o, u; the addition of the vowels in the name give the "Ideality" or deeper nature and motive.

Take the complete birth name of yourself and of someone else with whom you are associated in close relationship and compare the final number of the "Idealities." If the numbers are identical, this shows the deeper motives, purposes, ideals and principles of the individuals to be almost identical and marks the basis for harmony in a lasting friendship, love or marriage. Both 2, both 3, both 8 and so on. If the "Ideality" numbers of two names are both even numbers, such as one 2 and the other 4, one 6 and the other 8, one 9 and the other 7 there will be found between the deeper natures an agreement upon general purposes and interests, sufficient to overcome the danger of permanent disagreement and misunderstanding, but different enough to give individually different views and angles to the mutual motive and desire. If one "Ideality" is an odd and the other is an even number, this shows that the individuals, even when looking at the same subject or prospect, are viewing it from an entirely different angle. Not knowing this as the real cause of why they see things entirely differently, they become intolerant and impatient of each other's opinions, which leads to definite antagonism and recriminations. The viewpoint from which their arguments are deduced is not a mutual one, but it appears to each that it ought to be, or that the other is going out of the way to be either stupid, aggravat­ing, or is taking a delight in pouring discouragement upon a cherished ideal or a much loved principle.

To have the same number in "Idealities" is the most har­monious and makes a lasting basis upon which to build a love or friendship as well as a single goal to aspire to. To have one "Ideality" an even number and the other another even number but of different denomination, is the next most harmonious; to have the "Ideality" in once case an even number and in the other an odd, is the most inharmonious and difficult and makes an impermanent basis for future happiness.

It is not hard to explain why the majority of physical mar­riages are made between two people who have opposite "deali-ties" for Dame Nature is a great match-maker and has more to do with the association than anyone else, even often more than the parties themselves. In the laws of God in Nature, opposite poles of force are more pro

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